Online Dating? 20 Tips to Move You Through Without Fear of Being Genuine & of Being Alone
When you are online dating there is much you can tell about a person just by viewing their profiles and that’s a good thing, but there are some people out there that come across really cool, but they have an agenda, and a lot of times, me, personally, who has had much experience, can be fooled. But I find if I speak to them on the phone I can save myself the aggravation of meeting them in person because I have found out what I need to know
the old fashioned way-the phone-and that they aren’t for me. But sometimes I am fooled. Here’s some tips
that will help you and keep you safe:
l. Do not be afraid to speak your mind. Nothing draws out a person of who they are when you tell your truth.
2. Do not have an agenda because it will backfire and bite you in the *ss.
3. Do not be afraid to be alone because if you are you will find yourself doing things that you really don’t want to be doing.
4. Meet for a short time. Don’t make a long evening out of it unless the chemistry is so hot between you that you want to stay.
5. Don’t just text. Get on the phone. You can find a lot about the person on the phone. Communication most important.
6. If something goes wrong between you and your date and they won’t communicate—leave immediately or stop texting.
7. A lot of men and women are crazy and you’ve got to know the signs of that craziness—if they say inappropriate things to you, send you inappropriate photos of themselves or others, want to come to your place right away.
8. If you find out your date is lying—call them on it—and make sure you are in a public place.
9. Tell your date what you will and will not do.
10. Call a friend ahead of time and ask them to call you at a certain time to check on you and see how the date is going and if that friend can be your excuse if you want to leave.
11. If the date walks in and doesn’t look like their photo-LEAVE. You owe them nothing.
12. If you know your self esteem sucks, be very careful on who you choose to go on a blind date with.
13. Meet them in your neighborhood in a public place, especially where you know the people, if you need help.
14. If there is something about this blind date that scares you excuse yourself and get the hell out of there.
15. If you are desperate, know it, and know you will choose someone out of pure desperation and it probably won’t end well.
16. If you are mistreated don’t be afraid to get up and leave.
l7, Don’t be polite and pussyfoot around with someone you don’t want to be with.
l8. See if the person pays for you and then thinks you owe them something-YUCK!-LEAVE!
19. Be fearless. That doesn’t mean you don’t have fear, but if you need to speak your mind do not hold back.
20. Have fun being alone. Learn about yourself and how much you like to be with you. Fall in love with you.
Don’t Be Afraid To Be Genuine & To Be Alone
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